tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post6431215430122789321..comments2023-10-05T10:00:27.231-07:00Comments on The Diary of a Gold-Digger: In which I try to decide whether to friend my gay high school boyfriend on facebookthe gold diggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09134199198587591427noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-43007464960836142692012-02-25T07:23:56.056-08:002012-02-25T07:23:56.056-08:00So how does that work now? Are you still attractin...So how does that work now? Are you still attracting gay men? Because I think there could be potential there once you don't care about sex any more.the gold diggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09134199198587591427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-12802215469049946242012-02-24T21:36:43.700-08:002012-02-24T21:36:43.700-08:00My best friend in college was gay, and I was in lo...My best friend in college was gay, and I was in love with him. I knew he was gay, and it would have been okay that I had no chance with him, except that sometimes I DID appeal to him. <br /><br />This would not have mattered so much except for one incident in high school with one of those blond toothy leadership types who later came out, and the fact that *ANY* guy who showed interest in me when I was in college was gay. My thinking was that gay guys liked guys, right? And gay guys liked me, so that made me ... what? What did it make me? I wasn't butch, at all. I'm lipstick/skirts/jewelry, always have been.<br /><br />Still haven't figured it out. Yeah, and STILL remember that I didn't go to my prom. <br /><br />And that my sister went to four.<br /><br />IvyKllrAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-86022517422056028022010-04-27T13:11:57.893-07:002010-04-27T13:11:57.893-07:00Jennifer, is there any woman who has not had a sim...Jennifer, is there any woman who has not had a similar experience? So many of my friends have had the same thing happen. Honestly. Although I have to say in the guys' defense that I doubt they are doing it deliberately.the gold diggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09134199198587591427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-5383503661671014952010-04-26T11:13:51.988-07:002010-04-26T11:13:51.988-07:00I see no harm in friending him. It's been a l...I see no harm in friending him. It's been a long time and all that.<br /><br />My high school love started acting weird all of a sudden and then unceremoniously dumped me. Turns out, he was just discovering he was gay (this was a guy who pestered me from 7th-10th grades to go out with him). Luckily, after enough time passed, we were able to be friends again.Jennifer (Jen on the Edge)https://www.blogger.com/profile/11334111687109555812noreply@blogger.com