tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post9111950888111555182..comments2023-10-05T10:00:27.231-07:00Comments on The Diary of a Gold-Digger: In which Sly still doesn't have his affairs in orderthe gold diggerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09134199198587591427noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-8347345769204021092017-03-06T03:20:07.899-08:002017-03-06T03:20:07.899-08:00Sigh Sly. Men like him exist you know. Sun revolve...Sigh Sly. Men like him exist you know. Sun revolves around their backside, everyone else is stupid and and incompetent but me! Look at how educated I am. Oh u want me to "do" something?? As in physical work that will require effort????? Nooo way Jose! Im tooo smart to actually do anything. <br /><br />Yep. They exist. Married to one. Would totally fall on me and not even give a crap about looking after me. Poor pooor pooor Doris. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-54386015266085677952015-09-10T07:49:22.298-07:002015-09-10T07:49:22.298-07:00Meri Aust, I vote for option 2. Especially given w...Meri Aust, I vote for option 2. Especially given what I know about Primo's half brother Ted, who 1. lives way beyond his means and 2. will inherit from his wealthy mother.GDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-32188363896308862692015-09-10T07:48:31.101-07:002015-09-10T07:48:31.101-07:00Yes! I had pointed this out to Primo months ago - ...Yes! I had pointed this out to Primo months ago - that if his dad died without finishing the will (and assuming there were no prior wills, which it turns out there were), his mom would not have gotten everything! I am pretty sure we would not have been able to convince Primo's brother Ted to turn over his share of the estate to his stepmother. GDnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-20953124526979704802015-09-08T15:18:43.013-07:002015-09-08T15:18:43.013-07:00I'd probably do the even 3-way split myself. I...I'd probably do the even 3-way split myself. It won't make anyone happy, but it doesn't sound like anything would, so take the quick and easy route and be done with it. <br /><br />Alternatively, Primo takes the whole shebang, and sends taunting text messages while drinking boozy, fruity drinks from a beach somewhere.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15053050063783317054noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-20895113971325461062015-09-07T15:01:34.001-07:002015-09-07T15:01:34.001-07:00I'm sure that all this has already been resolv...I'm sure that all this has already been resolved (good or bad) but it is important to understand what the state you live in will do if you don't have a properly executed will. I live in PA and it's straight forward. Surviving spouse gets 1/3 and children divide the other 2/3. I found Florida's very interesting. It actually takes into account how the children relate to the deceased.<br />Using Primo's family if Doris passes away first Sly would get 1/2 and Primo would get 1/2 of her estate. If Sly passes first Doris would get 1/2 and the children from 1st marriage would get 1/2. The presumption appears to be that the surviving spouse would pass their portion of the estate to the children they had with the deceased. Additionally, if there are children who died first and had children their children would stand in for the parent and get what would have been the parent's share. So if Primo's sister had children before she passed Primo would get half of the 1/2 and the children get the other 1/2.Liznoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-72972585428185351602015-09-07T12:24:34.271-07:002015-09-07T12:24:34.271-07:00I would rather Primo say, "I will keep it all...I would rather Primo say, "I will keep it all for myself and my brothers can inherit from their wealthy mother." :) <br /><br />However, I also love the idea of a charity that Sly would hate. Primo could say he would give it all to ELCA World Hunger relief. Sly thinks anyone who believes in God is really stupid, so that would make him crazy to have his money going to a church organization!the gold diggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09134199198587591427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-23230888782356068852015-09-07T12:23:10.583-07:002015-09-07T12:23:10.583-07:00It's like watching a train wreck about to happ...It's like watching a train wreck about to happen and you can do nothing to stop it, right?<br /><br />Thanks, Webb.the gold diggerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09134199198587591427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-61209845315028899972015-09-07T06:19:18.412-07:002015-09-07T06:19:18.412-07:00I know you're writing this on a time-lag, so m...I know you're writing this on a time-lag, so maybe this is no longer relevant, but has it occurred to Primo to say, 'Sly, if you don't sort this out, I will, as executor of the estate, divide everything into even thirds, end of story.'?<br /><br />Alternatively, Primo could say, 'If you don't have a will, as executor, I decide what happens to your estate and as such, I will give it to [insert name of charity Sly can't stand].'Laurenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17961324142363330268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3577155903853273621.post-86939837730478013172015-09-06T14:18:54.168-07:002015-09-06T14:18:54.168-07:00so with no will, the state law probably says all t...so with no will, the state law probably says all to Doris if she survives, or 1/3 each to the sons if she does not. that might actually make the whole thing more simple. <br /><br />know this has been a horror show. so sorry.webbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15168174623602308906noreply@blogger.com