I am not that woman.
I don't think there is anything wrong with wanting wine, roses, and diamonds, but I don't drink (unless it's Bailey's cut with cream), I prefer tulips and ranunculus, and I don't wear much jewelry.
I like Getting Things Done With No Drama and Without Having To Pay A Repairman.
That's one of the reasons I married an engineer. They can fix things.
I don't swoon over conventional romance.
I swoon over household repairs. Remember when Primo slayed that dragon of a broken washer and a broken dryer?
Ten minutes ago, he walked out of the house announcing, "I am going to the hardware store to get the parts to fix the toilet."
It has been getting really hard to flush over the past few days and he is fixing it now. Now. NOW. Do you know how exciting it is for the person who is married to a procrastinator when the procrastinator takes steps to solve a problem now?
Very very very exciting.