Here's what I wanted to say to my cousin Matt, who is not to be confused with my brother in law Matthew:
Yes! You have hit the nail on the head. This is not about our family at all but about Primo's horrible parents and brother Ted, who expected Primo to take care of them.
What I was really saying here was not so much that I have a great family, which I do - Primo is always commenting how nice everyone is to him, even though their political and religious beliefs are pretty much 180 degrees opposite of his, but that Primo's parents were horrible to me.
But you don't write that in a public forum under your own name. That's tacky.
You write it anonymously on your blog. That's not tacky.