Primo: I talked to my dad. I don't think he's ready to live on his own.
Me: Why not?
Primo: He said he couldn't make it to the bathroom in time and had to poop in his diaper.
Me: Oh my.
Primo: I hope I am never like that.
Me: Like what?
Primo: Where I treat an event like that as a casual aside instead of something to be viewed with horror.
Me: You mean, something you would bring up in conversation with your child only in the context of, "I hate to have to tell you this, but I am so horrified and I am concerned about what this might mean about my next steps," not as, "Oh yeah this happened and then I watched TV."