Me: Your dad complained about paying child support for his
own children?
Primo: His ex-wife’s husband was rich.
Me: But Ted and Jack are your dad’s children, not their
stepfather’s.
Primo: My dad didn’t think he should have to pay. When Ted
started college, my dad wouldn’t pay.
Me: Why not? No money? That’s why my parents didn’t pay for
my college. They couldn’t. They didn’t have the money.
Primo: No. Because Ted wanted to go to Amherst and my dad
thought it was too expensive. He also said that the child support agreement
ended when Ted turned 18.
Me: Ted didn’t stop being your dad’s child when he turned
18.
Primo: My dad said that Ted could have gone free to the
school where he taught so he should not have to pay tuition elsewhere.
Me: Ted got into Amherst?
Primo: Yes.
Me: But the school where your dad taught is a tier four
school. Amherst is way up there.
Primo: I know.
Me: Your dad thought Ted should go to an inferior school
just because he didn’t want to pay any of Ted’s tuition?
Primo: Yes.
Me: Your dad paid for your college. He didn’t say you needed
to go to his school.
Primo: No.
Me: Do you think Ted is bitter? Because I would be.
Primo: My dad is a jerk. He thought Ted’s stepfather should
have paid for everything.
Me: You paid for your stepdaughters to go to college.
Primo: That’s because their dad didn’t have any money. If I
didn’t pay, they weren’t going to get to go. My dad could have afforded to
help. He just didn’t want to.
This to me is why Sly was a truly horrible man. No manners (re house guests) could be overlooked (some...) but he was an amazingly sh!tty father and that is unforgivable.
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