Primo: What if Goldie’s mother acted the same way and
demanded that we spend all holidays with her?
Sly: That’s different. Her family is not close. And besides,
you spent Thanksgiving with her mother. It’s our turn.
Primo: What? That was Thanksgiving last year! And there are
no turns, Dad! I went years without seeing you guys more than once a year. I
travel half the time for work. I’m exhausted. It’s hard for me to take vacation
because my work does not stop. Christmas is one of the few times of the year I
can take off without worrying that stuff is piling up in my absence. Flying at
the holidays is a pain in the neck. I want to be able to relax.
I think Sly has misunderstood "close" for "co-dependent." Your family is close; he and Doris were co-dependent.
ReplyDeleteMy mother used to pull that crap, too. In her final years we went (we were only two hours away by then), but resisted it for 25 years. It's a real pain. Am so glad that Primo no longer has to deal with it.
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