You guys, thank you so much so your condolences and kind words. I have read all of them to Primo and he is touched that people who have never even met him are being so kind.
I agree with the thought that some of you so eloquently expressed that we wanted more for Doris - that even if she could be not likeable sometimes, she did not deserve the life she had with Sly. And Primo pointed out that in the few times I was with Doris without Sly, she was a different person.
"THAT'S who my mom really was," he said. "She was a nice, good person."
I hope wherever she is now - if anywhere, that she is not in pain and is with the people she loves.